Setting boundaries and making compromises

I find myself being asked by many around me about the boundaries I am setting. I try to state how I am but when I say it out loud it sounds more like a compromise. As this is happening I am also confronted with loneliness and the call to turn and wait on Jesus. Not to make an idol of a person or thing. Is this what I am doing?  I know it's not my desire. But am I allowing it to happen? Am I trying to fulfill the void in my heart that can only be satisfied with Christ with another? And if I am can I repent right now and turn around? Today has shown me that I am starting to walk down the path of making another my savior. I can still stop and turn around. I can maintain a relationship with out placing that at the first. I just need to step away. Stop compromising grieve the loss and rest in The Lord. He provides for me always has and I can trust in Him. I may just need some friends to hold me accountable :)